Big Dreams – How To Achieve Your Big Goals This Year
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Let’s chat about your big dreams.
When it comes to setting goals, many of us tend to think too small.
We often err on the side of caution and set small goals because our mind cannot fathom the possibility of achieving something that is so out of our reach.
But that can be a mistake.
We have all heard the quote by T. Harv Eker right? If you shoot for the stars, you’ll at least hit the moon.
Here’s the truth – you need to DREAM BIG, dream bigger than you ever have before.
When you rob yourself of the opportunity to dream big goals – goals that take your breath away – you aren’t doing yourself a favor.
To the contrary, when you keep yourself confined inside your comfort zone where you dream too small you consequently LIVE SMALL.
Sure you – you may think you were playing it smart by dreaming a small “safe dream” because hey, if you keep your expectations low, then you can’t be disappointed…
Um, I’m sorry to break the news to you but that thinking is so wrong.
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When you dream small, you feel small.
When you feel small, you feel inconsequential and crappy, especially if you have a big dream locked inside you that is screaming and busting to get out.
The discontent that comes from dreaming too small – WHEN YOU HAVE A BIG DREAM TO CHASE – will never, ever go away.
Instead it gnaws away at your heart and soul, until it is filled with emptiness and regret.
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You can try to bury it under lies like:
“I don’t really want that goal.”
“I don’t care.”
“I’m fine giving up on that dream.”
But those lies mean nothing and will benefit no one if you are only lying to yourself.
Let me ask you a question now.
Have you ever been invited to play a game that you had no idea how to play?
When asked to join in, you had one of two choices to make:
You could say no and watch the others play the game from the sidelines.
Or you could accept the challenge and give it a go.
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Have you ever accepted the challenge and thrown yourself into the deep end of a pool?
Have you experienced the joy of participating in life even if you really had no idea what you were doing?
Doesn’t it feel great just to try and give things a go rather than missing out on the opportunity to join in?
Your dreams are like one of those games you have being invited to play in life with friends.
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It doesn’t matter if you don’t win.
It doesn’t matter if you really have no idea what you are doing.
What matters most is that you are in the thick of it, getting your hands wet, getting your hands dirty, simply trying and having a laugh if you don’t get it right on the first, second or hundredth go.
What matters most is that you are taking action of some sort instead of idly sitting by watching others have fun…
Watching others stuff it up and giggle…
Watching others LIVE a life that you were invited to join in with but you turned down that opportunity because of why?
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Ask yourself now WHY do you turn down those amazing opportunities?
Due to fear of failure?
Fear of embarrassment?
That fear which prevents you from playing an innocent game with friends has robbed you from the opportunity to learn and grow and make new memories.
That same fear to dream bigger than you would usually allow yourself to dream is robbing you of the opportunity to REACH THAT BIGGER GOAL.
When life invites you to participate in any form of game just SAY YES.
If you don’t get a formal invitation get up and play anyway.
Just say hey, I’m keen to give it a go too and join in with eagerness and passion.
I ENCOURAGE YOU TO BEGIN ACTIVELY PARTICIPATING IN LIFE.
Remember you don’t need permission from anyone else to chase your dreams.
It is solely up to you to do that – to grant yourself permission to live life more fully than you have ever imagined.
Dream big my friend.
Walt Disney once said “if you can dream it, you can do it.”
Malcolm Forbes also noted that “when you cease to dream, you cease to live.”
However Eleanor Roosevelt said it best when she so eloquently commented, “The future belongs to those who believe of their dreams.”
This is the beginning of anything you want for your life.
Wishing you the best of luck with dreaming big.
Much love,
Frances Vidakovic xx
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I’m Frances Vidakovic – a mindset & action coach for quietly ambitious women who want to stop overthinking and finally take aligned action. I help women achieve their goals and follow through on what matters, without sacrificing their sanity or soul.