who do you want to become

 

Important Questions – This Is The Most Important Question Of All!

 

Looking for important questions? Here is the most important question you need to ask yourself and how it will change your life.

 

 

Let’s chat about important questions.

While there are many important questions in life, this here is the most important question you need to ask yourself:

 

WHO DO YOU WANT TO BECOME?

 

If it has you stumped and you have no idea how to answer it, I promise you are not alone.

For so many years when my kids were younger, I would’ve have stared back at you blindly and thought:

“Wait, do I get to decide this myself?”

 

I thought my identity was defined by the roles that I had in life. 

 

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Mom. Wife. Sister. Daughter. Friend.

I also thought that other people (like my kids, my husband, my sisters and parents etc) got to decide how well I performed in that role. 

That somehow I was only doing a good job IF THEY THOUGHT I WAS DOING A GOOD JOB.

Crazy right? I let other people decide that for me.

That I didn’t realise that my thoughts about myself held more power than the people outside of me (even if I loved them dearly).

Did you know that you can decide who you want to become in life? This decisions is YOURS to make.

 

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Here’s the thing: it actually matters more WHAT YOU THINK OF YOURSELF that what other people think.

 

Yes, it matters more WHAT I THINK OF MYSELF AS A WIFE AND SISTER AND DAUGHTER AND FRIEND than what everyone around me thinks.

Want to know why? 

Because I can’t control what other people think about me.

They get to think whatever they want to think.

And this means I have the same privilege too.

 

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Rather than constantly questioning myself, I can decide I am a great mom, great wife, great daughter, great friend.

I just am (I really am – want to know why?. Because I believe it’s true.)

When you just decide you are doing great.

When you just decide you have value to bring to the world.

When you just decide to stop beating yourself up about everything and pointing out all your supposed shortcomings (and seriously how mean is that, by the way? Would you talk to a 5 year old kid in the same way? Tell them how crap they are all the time?)

 

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When you just decide HEY THIS IS ME…AND I’M GOING TO SHOW UP IN A WAY THAT I LOVE EACH DAY, JUST BECAUSE I CAN…your whole world changes.

 

In fact, your whole world changes when you change.

Just some food for thought today.

If you would like to share your thoughts on WHO YOU WOULD LIKE TO BECOME, I would be honored to hear it.

Simply send me a message.

Much love,

Frances xx

 

 

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