Life Coach Online – What Life Is Like After Hiring A Life Coach
If you’re looking for a life coach online, here’s what my experience of life was like AFTER I partnered with my first life coach.
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If you’re looking for a life coach online, I want to delve deeper into all the incredible changes that happen when you take on a life coach.
I have shared with you before my story of what my life was like before I took on a life coach.
To sum it up: it involved lots of dreaming without doing, wishing without acting, thinking without implementing, and cruising through life hoping that my dreams would just randomly fall into my lap…which of course would never just happen without me actually making them happen.
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So let’s start by defining what a life coach actually is:
HAVING A LIFE COACH IS LIKE HAVING A:
MENTOR: Someone who really believes in you
MANAGER: Helps you set strategies & break down goals into doable bits
PERSONAL TRAINER: Keeps you focused on your goals
SPORTS COACH: Provides objective input to improve your game.
When you partner with a life coach they will see in you what you may not even be able to see in yourself.
❤︎ They see your potential.
❤︎ Your amazingness humanness.
❤︎ Your capacity for change.
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I know at least inside my own coaching program which is called THE DREAMING TO DOING COACHING EXPERIENCE my clients finally have the opportunity to:
❤︎ Unravel all the mind drama and discover what’s holding them back so they can finally stop just dreaming and start doing.
❤︎ Develop a mindset that supports them in achieving your goals (instead of sabotaging all their efforts)
❤︎ Nurture an unstoppable vision that allows them to tap into their courage, take risks and step outside their comfort zone
❤︎ Decide on a super simple strategy and execute a game-plan that will get them their results – we will do this work together and it will work this time
So I want to ask you an important question…
What is it that you want in life?
Like really, really want…
Seriously deep down in your heart, what is it that you dream of doing, having or achieving?
Now ask yourself: why do you want it so much?
How would it change your life to achieve those goals?
And what’s currently standing in your way?
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This is what I’m interested in knowing as your future life coach.
The deeper stuff beneath the surface.
Once we find the goal behind your goal, my job is to help take you through this transformation.
What you need is support, a structure for achieving self-awareness, someone to tell you the truth and encourage you to keep on moving towards your dreams.
Your dreams are priceless.
So if you know you need to do something different but you have no idea how to get over the mind drama and begin taking action….this is it.
This is where I step in and throw you a life line my friend.
The life buoy is THE DREAMING TO DOING COACHING EXPERIENCE.
Repeat after me:
Life is short.
Enough time has been wasted.
It’s time to stop just dreaming and start taking action.
What do you want to change?
Tell me what you want and why it isn’t in your life right now.
Once we have this information we can use it to create a plan to make those dreams possible for you.
It’s time to turn you from a dreamer into a doer.
When you invest in THE DREAMING TO DOING COACHING EXPERIENCE, you finally demonstrate to yourself that you’re ready to take your goals seriously.
Let me share with you a fun fact about me.
I have an amazing superpower when it comes to coaching.
My superpower is this: I have an uncanny ability to bring out the very best in people.
Even more important than that, I know how to turn dreamers into doers.
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SOME PEOPLE JUST NEED A GENTLE NUDGE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
My coaching program is about creating results…results that are more than worth the investment.
We all know what will happen if you don’t make changes in your life.
Nothing will change, right?
And what are the consequences of falling back on this default future?
You miss out on what could have been.
You miss out on creating a future that’s different from the one that will just happen if you have no coach or commitment to change.
Some may say it’s indulgent. “Who am I to want to chase my dreams?”
I say WHAT’S THE ALTERNATIVE IF YOU DON’T?
Put simply, life coaching gives you the opportunity to look at:
❤︎ where you are now
❤︎ where you want to be
❤︎ and the ways to bridge the gap between the two.
❤︎ All with the support of someone totally committed to realizing and unlocking your potential (that’s me!).
It’s about looking at the thoughts that prevent you from being the person you want to be and instead embracing a mindset that will enable you to live the life you want to live.
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So here’s how to know if you would benefit from a life coach…
It’s if you tick any of the following boxes:
❤︎ You want to live life with more intention and purpose and explore what is holding you back (even if you feel scared about doing so – FYI: feeling fear is totally normal).
❤︎ You understand that dreams can only become a reality when you take action and embrace thoughts that will support you on your journey to your best future self.
ASK YOURSELF JUST 3 QUESTIONS:
❤︎ Where are you now?
❤︎ Where do you want to be?
❤︎ What can we do to get you there?
Up until today, you may have had the best of intentions but you allowed things to get in the way of your pursuit of your goals (in the form of excuses, procrastination, work, children: take your pick!).
Yet that doesn’t mean you should abandon your goals forever. You can start today – no matter what your life looks like, I’m here to help you. If not now, when my friend?
When you enrol in a coaching program like THE DREAMING TO DOING COACHING EXPERIENCE is a conscious and determined decision to start making the best use of your time here.
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Now I have to say that chasing your goals may feel scary as it requires you to step outside your comfort zone.
Yet it’s easier to push through that fear with the unwavering support from a life coach – both your biggest cheerleader and honest guide.
Life coaching is truly one of the most powerful experiences you will ever have the opportunity to embrace.
By taking on a life coach, you give birth to things that never would’ve been had you not been brave enough to make your dreams a priority.
Simply by hiring a coach you make an investment in yourself.
When you invest in your own mental health and personal growth, you will begin to live your life in a more thoughtful, deliberate manner.
Remember your thoughts influence your feelings which impact your actions and through actions come RESULTS.
So if you love the idea of being held accountable and having someone to show you how your mind is working for or against you, I encourage you to consider investing in life coaching and I invite you to enrol in THE DREAMING TO DOING COACHING EXPERIENCE.
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So you may be wondering well how does your DREAMING TO COACHING EXPERIENCE even work?
Well 12 weeks is all it takes to turn your life around. Seriously just 12 weeks.
In this DREAMING TO DOING COACHING EXPERIENCE coaching series you will set goals that light a fire inside of you, which you will work constructively towards for 12 Weeks.
They can be set in any area of your life.
❤︎ Career or business
❤︎ Finances
❤︎ Weight
❤︎ Relationships
❤︎ Creative goals
❤︎ Time management
❤︎ Seriously anything that makes you go OH MY GOSH I CAN’T DO THIS ALONE!
There are 12 weekly x 45 minute Zoom sessions during which you get the opportunity to reflect, explore, plan and achieve.
When you enrol in this three month personalised private coaching package, you will undergo a transformation that will totally change your life forever.
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Here’s why. When you commit to coaching you will:
❤︎ Be on the center stage. It’s all about you and your goals, looking at the way your mind works, exploring your options, and thinking deeply about your choices
❤︎ Discover a simple framework to manage better all the negative emotions that come with stepping outside your comfort zone
❤︎ Work within a 12 week time frame; enough time to complete your assigned goals, but short enough to stay focused and motivated
❤︎ Identify old obstructive habits, drop them, and embrace new more productive thoughts and habits instead.
❤︎ Learn to stay committed to yourself and your goals, and understand that you truly hold the power to create your life from hereon.
You may be wondering what will happen when you enrol in THE DREAMING TO DOING COACHING EXPERIENCE?
Well many things but most importantly:
❤︎ You will take yourself and your life more seriously
❤︎ You will think clearer and be able to take more effective and focused actions immediately
❤︎ You will stop putting up with what is dragging you down
❤︎ You will create momentum so that it’s easier to get results
❤︎ You will set clear, stretchy goals that are aligned with what YOU want and your true purpose
❤︎ You will be encouraged to reach for much more than you would on your own
I personally have been a certified life coach since 2001 and decades of experience helping clients manage their mindset.
I also have a degree in psychology and am the author of over 20 books and a digital course creator who has created over 40 courses so far.
My first blog InspiringMomLife.com won the Best Parenting Blog Award in 2019 and my second blog DreamBigMyFriend.com won the Best Personal Development blog in 2021.
I’m seriously OBSESSED with helping my clients learn the simplest, most effective ways to manage our mind when it comes to goal-chasing.
Because here’s the thing: you need to manage your mind OR your mind will manage you…
The other thing is I don’t just talk the talk.
I walk the walk in every aspect of my life and business.
I personally took a pause from my successful full-time coaching business to pursue my own dreams of starting an online business and writing books (best thing ever!).
Now I’m returning to my coaching roots, with the true understanding of the mindset and strategies required to achieve big goals with our human brains (that often default to feelings of fear, confusion, overwhelm, doubt and procrastination.)
I’m also a mom of two teens, one with special needs, married for 20+ years, living in beautiful Sydney Australia and all these experiences have led me to this moment now – where I can HELP YOU learn effective strategies to support you to building a life of your dreams, that feels simpler, easier and more joyful too.
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If you know that you know that you would benefit from private coaching but….. a whole string of buts are keeping you stuck, first things first:
Please know that it’s totally normal to feel a little fear before taking the leap.
It’s TOTALLY NORMAL.
This is because you are a human with a human brain.
Humans like to stay inside their comfort zone, even if our comfort zone is sometimes suffocating us and our dreams are definitely located outside this space in our growth zone.
This is where I love to keep in mind the following quote: EVERYTHING I WANT IS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR
❤︎ IF YOU HAVE NEVER INVESTED MONEY IN YOURSELF BEFORE…
I know the feeling, my friend.
I also used to feel really weird about investing money in myself in the past.
It felt so frivolous and extravagant….like I didn’t deserve it.
But if one of my kids showed even the slightest interest in something (like learning a new musical instrument or sport)…I didn’t hesitate to go out and buy whatever my kids needed to succeed.
Yet if it was for me…I’d feel all the guilty feelings.
Seriously, we need to look at this: why do we give so freely to others and not to ourselves?
Enough of that my friend.
You are worth investing in.
Ponder on the following question:
What are you losing out on by not taking action, by remaining stuck, by doing things the same old way you have always done them?
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I want you to get to your older years and become an 80 year old version of yourself who thinks:
❤︎ “Oh my gosh, I’m so glad I was brave enough to take action.”
❤︎ “I’m so proud of the fact that I embraced courage and stepped outside of my comfort zone!”
❤︎ “I love that I was prepared to take risks that felt scary and do the hard things.”
Or as Mary Oliver so eloquently put it in her poem WHEN DEATH COMES:
When it’s over, I want to say: all my life
I was a bride married to amazement.
I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms.
When it’s over, I don’t want to wonder
If I have made of my life something particular, and real.
I don’t want to find myself sighing and frightened, or full of argument.
I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.
Having a life coach is like waking up from a long sleep and realizing how fantastic it is to be truly awake in this world.
❤︎ SO HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU’RE A RIGHT FIT FOR THIS PROGRAM?
There’s a few ways to know. First, you’re a right fit for this program if your gut is nudging you in this direction.
My philosophy is: ALWAYS trust your gut. If there’s a voice inside you whispering: I think you need to give this a chance, listen to that voice, before fear and doubt creep in and take over.
Secondly, if you like my philosophy about life (put simply: it’s precious!) and human potential (we were put here on this earth to achieve great things), we will be a perfect fit.
Finally, you simply have a dream that you want to bring to life. You’re tired of waiting for things to magically happen and you’re ready to MAKE THEM HAPPEN. No more time-wasting, no more excuses…
This program is not for you though if:
❤︎ You aren’t willing to do the work required to explore your mind and bring your goals to fruition.
❤︎ You believe a coach needs to save you. Coaching is about helping you to tap into your own strength and wisdom.
❤︎ Note: of course it’s okay to feel nervous before starting but you need to come into the coaching space with an open mind and willingness to take responsibility for your own life.
Q: NOW IF YOU’RE THINKING….BUT I’M ALREADY SO BUSY…I’D LOVE A COACH AND DON’T THINK I’D HAVE THE TIME
Deep breath my friend.
You may need it when you hear me say that “being busy” is just a thought. You could just as easily decide to think: I have the perfect amount on my plate or now is the perfect time to do this.
The truth is many of us fill up our schedules with things that aren’t truly important or we aren’t great at managing our time.
We forget that it’s up to us to make time for the things that truly matter to us.
The side effect of having a life coach is a clearer focus, clearer mind and an eagerness to ditch the stuff from our schedule and life that’s holding us back.
In the words of Robin Sharma, investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life, it will improve the lives of all those around you.”
I want you to imagine for a moment what it would be like…
❤︎ To proactively take action to chase your dreams
❤︎ To live a little bigger, outside your comfort zone.
❤︎ To manage your mind in a way that supports you in becoming the best future version of yourself
❤︎ To feel brave enough to embrace more opportunities.
❤︎ And ultimately, make each day count because your time here on Earth is limited.
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Here’s the thing: I’ve been in your shoes before.
After coaching full-time for many years, I made a conscious decision to pause my practice to chase my own dreams.
During that time, I’ve published over 20 books, started two award-winning websites that have had over 6 million pageviews, created over 40 courses, launched my INSPIRING LIFE SCHOOL podcast and raised a family I love.
From personal experience, I know what it’s like to want something so bad and I know that having a coach by your side can be the difference between living an ordinary and extraordinary life.
If I sound like someone you would get along with really well, I would love to work with you.
It’s time to turn your life from ordinary to extraordinary with me today.
As always you know I love and appreciate you all.
Much love, Frances Vidakovic xxx
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I’m Frances Vidakovic – a mindset & action coach for quietly ambitious women who want to stop overthinking and finally take aligned action. I help women achieve their goals and follow through on what matters, without sacrificing their sanity or soul.