Seasons In Life – The Best Golden Nuggets I Have For You

 

Let’s chat about seasons in life. Here are the BEST two golden nuggets that will help you cope better with the seasons in life.

 

 

Let’s chat about seasons in life.

I’ve received lots of advice over the years but only two golden nuggets stand out for me, decades later.

 

SEASONS IN LIFE

GOLDEN NUGGET 1:

 

I was newly engaged when my older neighbours invited my sister and I over for dinner.

Upon seeing my engagement ring, the man said to me:

Let me share with you my secret to a long and healthy marriage.

Of course I leaned in.

 

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I wanted to know this so-called secret.

 

Then he said to me:

Marriage is just like a roller-coaster.

There will be highs and there will be lows.

There will be ups and there will be downs.

There will be days when you love your husband more than anything.

Then there will be days when you feel like killing him.

But you don’t because before you know it…you are back up again.

On that roller-coaster…taking the ride of your life.

(He was right).

 

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GOLDEN NUGGET 2:

 

Three years later I went to visit the baby clinic with my newborn because my first baby wouldn’t stop crying.

The nurse said to me:

This is just one of those bad days.

I promise you, the bad days won’t last forever.

Then she warned me:

When you have a baby, there will be just as many hard days as there are good days.

 

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There will be days when everything is going right.

 

Then there will be days when it feels like everything is going wrong.

You need to learn to ride the wave.

Up and then down.

Nothing has gone wrong.

This is just the way life is.

 

SEASONS IN LIFE

Don’t fight the seasons of life.

 

Don’t wish it were different.

Embrace the seasons.

Learn to go with the flow.

This is life.

(She was also right).

As always, much love from me and take care.

Much love,

Frances Vidakovic 

 

 

 

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