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Bad Choices – 6 Reasons You Make Crappy Decisions

 

Are you constantly making bad choices? Here are 6 reasons why you are most likely making crappy decisions all the time.

 

 

Let’s chat about making bad choices.

Imagine how much different your life would be if you could go back in time to five major decisions you’ve made in your life and make wiser choices.

What would your life look like today? The differences may be truly staggering.

 

Here’s the thing: much of your current situation is influenced by a few poor decisions you made 10 or more years ago.

 

Wiser decisions lead to a more satisfying life!

So, see how you can avoid making decisions that are likely to negatively impact your life.

 

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There are several primary causes for poor decision-making:

 

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REASON # 1 – Not having pertinent information.

 

While the opportunity to find out every relevant fact isn’t always a possibility, many people make rash decisions.

They jump in before they have had the chance to really properly evaluate a situation.

But waiting a few minutes, hours, or days to ask the appropriate questions and do a little research can lead to much more effective questions.

 

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REASON # 2 – Allowing fear to influence the decision.

 

Decisions that are based on fear are often poor decisions in the long run.

No one likes the physical sensations of fear, and many of us will do nearly anything to avoid them.

 

  • FYI – The best decisions are made when moving toward something, not just avoiding something.

 

  • When you’re in avoidance mode, any direction that moves you away from the fear is appealing.

 

  • That’s like closing your eyes, spinning around, and randomly picking a direction to move. You don’t want to be doing that! You want to be making wise choices based on courage instead.

 

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REASON # 3 – Failing to define an objective.

 

Wise decisions require an objective.

For example, consider how you might choose your next meal.

You can choose food based on a variety of goals.

You might base your decision on:

 

  • Convenience – What’s available?
  • Cost – What’s inexpensive?
  • Health – What would be a nutritious option?
  • Appearance – What will help me to look lean?
  • Comfort – What would feel the best?
  • Taste – What food would give me the best taste sensation?

 

  • When you make a decision, ask yourself what you’re trying to accomplish with that decision.

 

  • What are the likely outcomes from your options? How do those outcomes affect your objectives?

 

  • Will you be more likely or less likely to attain your goals? Make a choice after you have considered all these other factors.

 

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REASON # 4 – Letting emotions take the helm.

 

Strong emotions and skillful decision-making rarely go well together.

That’s because intense emotional states alter the way your brain processes information and makes decisions.

It’s best to wait until you’re calm, cool, and collected to make an important decision.

Calm thoughts usually lead to calm feelings, calm actions and calmer results.

 

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REASON # 5 – Prioritizing comfort.

 

Comfort is the natural target of our brains.

We naturally gravitate toward delicious, unhealthy food, the couch, the TV, hitting the snooze button, and surfing the internet.

 

 

  • When comfort is your goal, you’re usually making a poor long-term decision.

 

  • I think we all know someone that lives life in this way – they choose short term gain over long term gain because they are too afraid of the temporary discomfort they will feel.

 

  • You can usually see the error in making immediate comfort the goal so keep your eyes open for this mistake!
  • Comfort is the antithesis of progress.

 

  • The more discomfort you can bear, the faster you’ll make progress in your life.

 

  • Think about the highly successful people you know. They do things each day that would make the average person say, “I’ll pass.” They aren’t afraid of a little discomfort.

 

  • All in all, how much you are willing to put up with some temporary discomfort is a good indicator of how much success you will consequently experience in life.

 

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REASON # 6 – Failing to learn from past decisions.

 

Every poor decision you’ve ever made can be used to make wiser decisions in the future.

You can always learn something from a poor decision.

 

So, ask yourself this question – what is the worst decision you’ve ever made?

 

What impact did it have on your life?

It’s easy to see that a few wiser decisions in the past would have resulted in a different life than you’re living right now.

 

Luckily, it’s not too late for you even if you have made these 6 mistakes in the past!

 

You can start making wiser decisions today and guarantee a brighter future by making smarter, wiser decisions going forward.

Much love and best of luck xx

 

 

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