Crappy Life: This Is A Sh#tty Way To Live Life
Want to know what a crappy life looks like? Well here is a clear description of what a sh#tty way to live life looks like.
Let’s chat about how to live a crappy life.
I want to delve in deep into a sh#tty way to live life and the option you have to embrace instead each day.
Now I’m sure that I could probably paint a pretty awful picture of all the ways that we could live a really sh#tty existence here on Earth.
But I want to enter this conversation with the assumption that you aren’t living in a country devastated by war or oppression and that you are living in a country where you have the freedom of choice and freedom of speech. Even if you aren’t maybe living your ideal life right choice, your liberties haven’t been stripped away from you.
The conversation we would have right now would obviously be completely different if you lived in the former and I think we often forget how very privileged and blessed so many of us are, even if we aren’t sitting there counting our blessings in life.
So you might be living in Australia right now like me or another country where one would assume we have the power to create a lovely life for ourselves if we wished to and yet you might not be there yet.
You might yourself be sh#tting all over your potentially fabulous life and this is what I want to chat about today. What I think entails a less-than-ideal situation simply because the option exists to reach for something different.
So here are just a few examples of how you might be waking up each day and living a sh#ttier life than necessary.
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1 – 100% we need to start with hating on your body.
When you hate your body, this one vessel that you have been blessed with in life, a vessel that is in your care and it is up to you to nourish and move each day and treat it with love.
But instead of loving it, you are despising it, criticizing it, judging it, being mean to it…that my friend is a sh#tty way to live.
Why? Because you have the option to love it instead, to take care of it instead, to treat it with respect rather than disdain and with kindness rather than hatred or apathy.
This is an option that lies in your hands and your hands alone. Remember it isn’t up to anyone else to take care of your body. That responsibility and honor is something that has been bestowed upon you and you alone.
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2 – The second way we live sh#ttier lives is when we stay in jobs we hate.
Now that’s not to say you have to necessarily think your job is the best job in the entire world and that it’s not going to have its own ups and downs. I mean I actually think I have a pretty amazing job – I write and create courses and coach others each day to live their best life from the comfort of my own home.
I work my own hours and I set my own agenda but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t days where I don’t get tired or feel stretched or it emotionally exhausts me.
Of course there are and this is normal but at the end of the day I can honestly say my work satisfies me and I enjoy doing it and those are boxes I want you to tick.
Does your work satisfy you, even if it just feels satisfying getting that pay cheque at the end of the week and do you enjoy doing it?
If you ticked both boxes then great but if you didn’t…if you can honestly say it doesn’t satisfy you and that you don’t enjoy doing it at all…or you don’t enjoy any aspect of the tasks involved or the company of the people involved…then what are you still doing there?
This is honestly a pretty sh#tty way to live because you do have the option to explore different options, to get a new job or start your own business or just do anything different with the hope of it both satisfying you and you also deriving some enjoyment from your work.
This is an option you can always embrace my friend.
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3 – The third way we live sh#ttier lives is when we stay or endure sh#tty relationships and think that we don’t have the ignore to let them go.
Imagine if I was to tell you that your child was in a loveless marriage or an abusive relationship or involved in a toxic friendship that was eroding their self-esteem and confidence in life.
What advice would you have to give your child in that situation? You would tell them RUN. LEAVE. GO ANYWHERE.
You are worth more than that. There is never a high enough price that can be exchanged for staying in a crappy relationship where it feels like your soul is dying inside. You honestly don’t have to put up with it anymore.
The cost is much too high. You already know you will regret staying in or enduring that sh#tty relationship so set yourself free. Now the type of sh#tty relationships that I’m speaking of here are completely different from the normal, healthy relationships characterized by honesty, respect, loyalty and good communication.
These healthy relationships will of course still have their good days and bad days, highs and lows, ups and downs but they don’t leave you constantly feeling totally sh#t inside, unseen, unheard, disrespected and emotionally depleted.
They are a completely different kettle of fish and if you stay in the latter then I hate to be the bearer of bad news but at the same time, I love you enough to tell you the truth and it’s this: this is a sh#tty way to live.
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4 – The fourth and final sh#tty way to live is having a sh#tty relationship with yourself.
Now this is where many people trip up because they think: well I sort of like my body and I have an okay job and okay relationships so three out of four ain’t too bad.
But this last one will be enough to dump a massive bucket of dirty dishwasher over all the others and make you feel like total sh#t if your relationship with yourself isn’t the best. So here are some examples of what a sh#tty relationship with yourself looks like:
It’s when you doubt yourself all the time. It’s when you don’t believe you are capable or worthy or good enough or smart enough to have what you want in life.
It’s when you allow the inner critic in your mind to drown out the sound of your kinder voice. It’s when you constantly self-sabotage yourself and play small in life.
It’s when you stop dreaming big and chasing your goals and sort of give up on growing and evolving and making new exciting changes happen in your life. It’s when you are your own worst enemy in life rather than your own best friend and cheerleader in life.
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This is in a nutshell a pretty sh#tty way to live, only because you are the creator of your own misery in this situation.
Noone else is doing it to you – you are doing it to yourself. And you once again do have another option at hand. You have the option to develop a more loving relationship with yourself – a kinder one, a more compassionate one, a more accepting one.
Of course you can probably already see that this would of course impact your life in a positive way – if you had a more loving relationship with yourself rather than a really sh#tty one.
So those are the four ways that we often create for ourselves pretty sh#tty lives and I say here “sh#tty” knowing this is a subjective term but that is how we would describe it to ourselves.
Like man, this seriously feels really sh#tty right now. And if you have listened to this episode so far and thought to yourself OH MY GOSH, I TICK SOME OF THOSE BOXES.
I either hate my body or job or am involved in a sh#tty relationship with someone else or with myself, please don’t worry. I’m here to help you out.
The first solution to this problem is my signature course THE MANAGING YOUR MIND MASTER COURSE. This course will save you by teaching you how to think differently about your life. It will be like an instant mindset shift or lightswitch turning on in your life.
Then the second step is my YOUR INVISIBLE CROWN course which is the most comprehensive personal development I have ever seen on the market. It has approximately 10 hours of content to support you as you discover exactly what you need to do to show up every day in a way that you love. It is possible my friend and it’s also totally okay to ask for help when you need it.
This is an investment in yourself and in your life which is honestly truly so valuable and precious. And you my friend are worth investing in, especially if you feel as if you are living a life that sometimes just feels really crappy. I invite you to do something different. I invite you to allow me to help you.
Let’s end this sh#ttiness today because I promise you, there is an alternative option out there for you to embrace. A life that feels lighter, calmer, happier and more in alignment with the true self that you desire to be.
Wishing you much luck and love,
Frances Vidakovic xxx
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